My heart breaks for all of you, but especially for Chandler, for there is no greater pain then burying your infant child, and I truly feel your pain and loss. We never understand why, but we must trust that God had a greater plan for this perfect, sweet, innocent and free of sin life. That God will keep him in his loving arms, safe, free of pain, pure and innocent until you meet again. I know you will carry him in your heart always and forever until you see him again. When you meet again, he will know you are his loving mother and that you have waited for that day to be with him in Heaven since the day he left you. I pray for you to find peace in your heart knowing that you will hold him again one day. God bless all of you. All my prayers, hugs and love are with you all.